The second day of the International Academy of Practice with Alienated Children Conference was packed full as the first, with a similar number of delegates in the auditorium and over a hundred delegates from around the world joining us online.
The day began with the Honorable Judge Dr Shiri Hyman from Haifa, who set out the work of the Judiciary and the areas of concern in cases where children align and reject a parent, followed by Ben D Garber PhD, who discussed the importance of considering dynamics and diagnosis.
Dr Sietske Dijkstra explored coercive control and the experience of alienated mothers, followed by Clinical psychologist and senior lecturer, David Banai, who described the similarities between the inducement of children and recruitment to cults, and suggested that the child must suppress its core memories.
Joan Long, a chartered psychologist and psychotherapist from the Republic of Ireland, described hesitancy in the Irish family court system and the challenges of working with alienation cases and the need for boundaries in the family and the system.
In the afternoon, Dr Inbal Kivenson Bar-On spoke further about the breakdown of social norms and the requirement to reinstate strong and stable boundaries around children and families affected by alienation whilst couple and family therapist, Dikla Sherel, talks about the systems around the family and the impact of interventions.
Israeli family lawyer, Moran Samun LLM, then expanded upon the interaction between law and psychotherapy and describes the role of lawyers in managing complex cases after which, Dr Benny Bailey, of Western Galilee College, about qualitative research into court mandated interventions in cases of alienation.
Our final session began with an interview between Karen Woodall and Dr Alice R. Berkowitz, clinical and forensic psychologist who practices in California, talking about her long experience of working with alienation, and reflecting on how therapists can work with negative projections. This lead to a presentation by Teodora Minčić, a psychologist and specialist in Medical Psychology, who joined the conference from Belgrade to talk about the hostile environment encountered by child protection workers and the need for practitioner safety.
Our final presentation was from psychologist Mia Roje Đapić who talked about the negative projection directed at practitioners by campaign groups, and the harm that this can do to children’s safety. The conference supported Mia’s call for practitioner courage and determination not to be terrorised by campaigners who create false narratives, in order to distract people from the harm which is caused to children when they are induced to use psychological splitting.
The conference closed with a resounding agreement that the work of the Academy is essential for the protection of abused children in divorce and separation and a strong and unified commitment to mutual protection and support from all the countries in attendance.
The conference attracted attention from nineteen countries around the world with 248 delegates. Brought together by funding and collegiate work between the Western Galilee College and the Family Separation Clinic, this conference was not for profit with all proceeds going to fund further development work by IAPAC.
There is much work now to be done to build upon this successful endeavour.
For those who attended, on demand recordings will be available, I will post details here and they will be on the IAPAC website. On demand purchase will also be available when the recordings are uploaded.
I follow all reports with interest and hope that we will eventually release all of our children from their. Prisons. My question is how will we reach the children? They will not be referring themselves. Could a call be made for rejected parents to make contact with details. These could be differentiated and a start could be made into contacting these families . Otherwise the children with their Alienator will remain hidden and lost to us. Eileen Cocker (Sorrowing grandmother of three children)
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Dear Karen,
to come to IAPAC2022 was my great wish, but I can not realise this year. The reason: I thought that I don’t speak Englisch good enough to understand good enough, what the speakes say.
I was so sad about this, that I take a personal coach. She help me learning your language better and better.
I wish, that I can visit the next IAPAC and i wish to visit you and have a practic in your family separation clinic in London. This vision make my heard calm and happy.
Because it’s my passion to help familys in those horrible situations as PA.
I have this situation with my own family since 2010. I am a mother, my 4 son’s “lost” me in ages of 7 (twins), 12 and 16. Their father had this plan, the professions, who should help the children to have both patents, failed. But my children are in my heard forewer, you know what I mean. I can’t accept this katastroph.
So i study “Social Work”, finished in 2017 and began to work for protect children losing mum or dad: losing the half of their roots.
I knew 15 mothers, who were in a situation like mine and in 2019 i take them in my WhatsApp-Group “Mütter” (Mothers). I am in contact, professional and privat, with Dr. Stefan Rücker (Bremen), Dr. Wilfried von Boch-Galhau (Würzburg), Dr. Ursula Kodjoe (Freiburg) and some others scientists, who have their passion in helping familys with this special problems.
I do many different things, to make people see, what is reality in Germany. Friends who are jewish, tells me that the situation about mothers (or fathers) like me, take their memories about the last war in their soul, in their heards, in their mind.
What a shame for Germany!
Now i have two questions:
When and were is the next IAPAC2022?? (I will visit this event, wherever it is.)
What do you think about my wish to make a visit (and maybe a practic) in your clinic?
With my best wishes for you,
Manuela Fischer
PS: The text of this mail is only my work. My coach don’t see it before i send it to you. But I send it to her too and correct the text next weekend. Maybe then i send you this mail again (in a better version 🙂
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